>>74787272I get it man, I really do. And I hope that day comes for you when you're truly ready for it.
It's hard coping with all you have to give up at the start, especially if you aren't emotionally ready to handle it like
lets be honest, almost all of us on this board , but once you start figuring things out it really gives you a different,more positive outlook on life.
I love my kids, and I'm lucky my wife and I were ready and able to handle raising them at the start, but like I said its not an end all requirement for a person to be happy. I've seen too many couples rush into having them, and make both themselves and the children permanently miserable as a result.