>>48488195Of course I'd enjoy if I could directly encourage my oshi to do what I want, but part of being a fan of someone is respecting their personal autonomy and trusting that they'll do what they think is best for them. If you can't cope with the decisions your oshi makes she's a bad fit for you and you should find someone else who matches your preferences.
I don't struggle much with my oshi Mumei because all I want to tell her is LOVE YOURSELF MORE YOU SILLY OWL GIRL I'VE NEVER THOUGHT LESS OF YOU FOR YOUR SHORTCOMINGS YOU ADORABLE SWEETHEART.