>>61028387If you act like you are owed love and impose on others and try too force them into it by being a manipulative and entitled creep, then you shouldn't be rewarded for acting that way: If you treat yourself as having value and build yourself up and sincerely work on being a better person. Then you are earning it definitely deserve it. To be fair, all to often it goes the wrong way around where the biggest chumps bully and work mind-games on people to make others become emotionally invested in them, while people who are more mentally mature and emotionally self-reliant get left by the wayside.