>>26268856You need someone who you can trust to really talk this out, anxiety is just fear of failure.
Get some friends, female friends, male friends, get used to being in public, get used to talking about yourself(keep in mind here nobody is ever truly honest about themselves, we all got skeletons in our closets, some people's closets are even catacombs, just share what's good enough, you have multiple hobbies don't you...?) get used to asking people questions about themselves that are relevant to you or to the conversation, learn how to get to know people one on one, etc.
The deal with anxiety is that you're afraid of sticking out poorly instead of blending in, you have to put yourself out there more often.