>>72580014I was giving you an example. What I just said was overall "I believe her," but sounds like a negative statement about her skills and would instantly make trashy people like her parents defensive, so they would hoot and holler and "how dare you" and probably threaten to shoot me. It is what it is, but that's their family dynamic and she's probably terrified of saying the wrong thing and getting ostracized. Remember that she always describes conversations as minefields ready to blow up in her face if she says something even slightly wrong. Now she's back home and she's way more cautious, and you find this inconsistent?
