>>50835155If you saw value enough in un-neeting and getting in shape in the first place, you're not a lost cause, because Gura never told you to do that for her. You did it because you acknowledged that it would be an improvement over what you had previously, and you started to reap the benefits from living a more well-adjusted life. That was because of you, and your decisions, not her. If that was something you enjoyed, it was because you saw how it benefitted your life. It had no affect on Gura, so attributing your life's work and happiness to her is the part that's meaningless.
