>>55122770No it isn't. The dog jokes are one sided and the girl doesn't even usually realize what the implication is.
The phrase, once you go black you can't go back has one meaning and one meaning only.
And implying it's a joke doesn't make it any less cringe and off-putting to say.
Besides, there's plenty more than just that, her PL NTR obsession shit is just as bad and can't be explained away by 'lol it's just a joke'.