>>41103836I can understand if you're from an outside metropolitan area like Jakarta or Surabaya. But, if you're being raised from there and/or interacting most with local urbanites, then it can't be helped that you're forming the "Indonesian girls = Western girls" mindset. The only thing that makes some of those Westernized girls at the "lite" level is that society, in general, is still heavily religious (even in Jakarta!). It's unlike Western society which is actively suspicious of any organized religion and people there leaving religion en masse.