>>73459819Because it means you're not cool and you're gonna be really shy and awkward and you aren't gonna be good at sex and they might need to take charge instead (a lot of women say they want to take charge but take a look at how frequently girls ask a guy out instead of waiting because they want to be asked out. Statistically most want an experienced guy who will take the lead).
It's like crying in front of a girl. Sure they understand that you're a normal person and that you cry and feel emotions but the world constantly shows us in tv and movies and even IRL that most (not all but most) women are only really interested in an emotionally detached aloof guy and that crying in front of them will make them think less of you and think you're less attractive, even if they don't want to.
It's sad and awful but it's the world we live in.