>>15220571You are a literal child that is incapable of realising the reality of your relationship with this woman. Your investment was never misplaced, when she says she loves you she means it, but your ideas of self importance are so far off the mark its not even funny.
If she treated you like shit over this you'd be morally justified, but she didn't. She explained the situation like an adult expecting you to act like one. But you didn't.