>>44963505Neither is falling in love with real women. Almost all relationships end and the majority of those endings are painful. I've had enough relationships to learn to not worry about the end but just to enjoy the moment and if I can find a girl one day who I love enough to spend the rest of my life with then great, if not life goes on. You gotta appreciate happiness where you can find it. Just don't become obsessed and put your entire mental well being in any one person's hands so it collapses when they're gone.