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Here's a fun tip. Try comparing the person who you want as your next oshi to the oshi you're trying to get over. In fact, don't even compare to the oshi you're trying to get over, compare to an idealized version of your former oshi that doesn't exist. Before long, you'll be sailing your way to a happier relationship with your new oshi. But you don't. Not really, not entirely, you never really get over it entirely. At first it'll hurt real bad and then over time it'll hurt less and less but it'll never go away entirely because they left a scar and sometimes you'll think of a memory related to them, or you'll see a person that you knew together or you'll go to a place that the two of you were at and it'll hurt again. And you won't know why because there's a scar there and maybe that's the kind of person you are, the kind of person that just accumulates scars and carries them around with you. Maybe the reason that you can't get over them is because you weren't really into them, you were into what they represented, the idea they could make you happy. But they can't. Because if you needed someone to make you happy then you probably weren't going to be happy with that person anyway. Maybe the only person you need to get over is yourself.