>>47290535I am positive that anything with criticism is gonna get put in the shredder, no matter how polite you are. There really isn't a good option other than prechat and no one is gonna do anything there. Not the guy saying he definitely will, and not you, either. Yes, you, the one reading this. She's gonna come back completely fine, ignore everything, say she didn't do anything exciting and doesn't know what to talk about and you'll put up with it, again, just like when she came back from a hiatus in a new country and barely touched the cliff notes. I wish I know how to get it through to her but she's gotten positive and negative feedback galore and nothing changes.