>>17605539>>17605703>>176055281000% this is in-character.
>>17605629>Why do women (and men) love being degraded so much? Chat going wildHave you ever done something that felt difficult or painful but enjoyed the exertion of doing it anyway?
Degradation is a way for people to feel like they're real.
Like they're safe.
Like they're being *acknowledged* without having to pretend or hide or suppress their own weaknesses.
Think of a gem. A gem in the rough is simply dirty irregular glass.
By inflicting adversity on it and giving it your full attention and taking away its natural impurity you're making it something truly worth of admiration.
That is why Shibari is such a major deal.
It's taking the raw material of a body and mind and putting it into a beautiful frame.