>>14312885Anon, I'm not going to pretend I know what's going on in her head, but of what I am absolutely sure is that she's stubborn. And when stubborn people, such as myself for instance, are presented with demands or expectations of other people we tend to dig in our heels and simply refuse to budge. On top of that, she's a girl, and there's probably a feeling of being insulted somewhere in there.
The communication problem isn't about schedules and so on. It was about a specific instance, a perfect storm of coincidences and situations that made us think she might be very sick or worse.
I don't see her lack of communication as a problem at all. There is no problem. This is all just poorly raised kids and young "adults" who are so used to being coddled and led by the hand that they don't even realize how unnatural it is. They can only see Gura as intrinsic to themselves and not as a separate entity that exists for herself. Ergo the disgraceful clinginess and temper tantrums.
This just makes me respect her more because it seems she understands the value of independence, privacy and silence. My Princess is quite wonderful you see, but you still don't seem to grasp what that actually means as a bottom line. You all like her but you still fail to understand what qualities are truly likeable and why.
