>>11261770>There is a difference between writing a significant body of literature about existentialism and living "reasonably"Only if you believe that after they tried to crack open the truths of the universe, they put their hat on and went home. They wrote about how they felt anon, their musings weren't a thought experiment or a clinical academic project.
>If you seriously put any stock into your thoughts about this, better get ready to seriously write about it for a few decades. You know, like Sartre, and Kant, and Dostoevsky.I don't need a compendium of my collected works to argue the truth
>You wouldn't start a new one without being over the previous ones, right?Lol, my whole point is that nobody is over them
> Imagine how fucking miserable everything would be if Tatsunokos never supported anyone else ever again, or if people like Mori had no one else to look up to.Imagine how miserable it is to watch things whither and die to be replaced with things less intense and less meaningful than what was there before.
>My feelings about it were real, but so is the fact that everything in your life is going to move onYou're describing "cope" anon. We all know cope exists.
>better ones even after losing your virginity.Your original post in this literally talked about how nobody would ever match up to your first crush.
So no, clearly not "better", unless you pick and choose what "better" means
>plenty of good things with life and the sobering realization that you'll always yearn for what you don't haveSometimes a thing is valuable enough to deserve you feeling bad over losing it. Freedom. Family. Love. You lose it all anyway, and it's only human for that to permanently break you. Because humans are breakable.
>Look at the idiots in the splits complaining about their oshi not streaming the way they want them to, as if they were entitled to anything. Look at the unicorns and doxxfags who believe it's ok to lust after the seiyuu behind their oshi but shit on them if they are ever suspected of having seen a dick before.Neither of these are unreasonable or contradictory depending on context. Your statements are non-sequitor
>I don't know what your oshi is to you, but you're making it blatant that she could never measure up to your first, so me suggesting that she isn't romantically interested into you shouldn't even phase you. Cherish what you have while you still have it. If it's not good enough for you to be happy any other way than (with) the ***right*** one, you'll just never let yourself be happy with anyone.I'd clearly be happy with somebody that truly loves me and only me so I don't know what you're on about
Just because it may be impossible doesn't change the hurt, or the sad, or the loss of dignity.
The relationship you describe is a prop on the stage of your life, and no matter how tender, how exquisite, a lie will remain a lie will remain a lie will remain a lie. Cope will only ever be cope for the things you cannot have.
