>>18186659>>18186988I think part of the problem is also that Kiara seems to be mostly proposing big group collabs. Of course those are always gonna be harder to organize and set up, what with schedules aligning and shit.
The Councilmale "host" stream is a perfect example of the problem. First, like you said, many girls are probably not exactly on board with the whole concept in the first place, which gets you a lot of lukewarm responses or outright rejections. Then you have the brilliant idea to hold it around valentines, where most girls will be busier with their solo streams instead. And lastly, again, too many people in the first place, those always take too long in advance to set up.
Kiara probably thought the idea sounded better in her head than it actually is in reality, and ran with it overexcitedly from the high of the Councilmale stream, but now that reality is setting in, she gets deflated about not everyone else sharing her enthusiasm, unfortunately she seems to take it personally the wrong idea from it, so not "this PARTICULAR idea kinda sucked actually" but "no one wants to collab with me in GENERAL, it's wasted effort to even try".
A lot of these problems could be avoided, if she rather just tried to set up smaller scale collabs with 1 or 2 people max at most. Much easier and quicker to organize, less complications and rejections. Not everything needs to always be some big fucking special event, hell just invite a girl to talk or some low-stakes activity like chilling in Minecraft or whatever, if you absolutely HAVE to be playing a game as a "reason" to be collabing at all
