>>19156296There's a difference between spicy food and physical abuse, anon. You know this.
Imagine if someone fantasized about murdering you. That'd be fucked up as hell, wouldn't it? You would probably feel unsafe to be around them, because of what that says about them.
Now, imagine someone is fantasizing about you killing them. That's fuckin' weird, but you probably wouldn't feel unsafe around them. Just weirded out.
There is a distinction between wanting others to hurt you and wanting to hurt others.
