>>23743877So, I know this is a weird question, but my oshi likes to spend a lot of her free time digging a tunnel on some property that she inherited. I haven't seen the full extent of it, but last I saw it was remarkably deep under the surface. She's spent roughly a year on it, and it's evident. The front of the thing is deep, wide, well put together. At the front, which is the only part that I've seen, she's got cement beams, electric lights, even chairs and a small table. I haven't gone into it, but it looked like the quality severely dropped as the tunnel went further, mostly becoming open dirt with some wood beams holding it up. My biggest concern is her safety, I'm really worried that she's going to dig too deep and it'll collapse on him or something. I've tried voicing this concern to her, but she just laughs it off and assures me that she'll be fine. Aside from safety concerns, there's also the fact that she doesn't really have a social life, because of this thing. I'm pretty much the only person she still talks to outside of his job, and she doesn't go out and do anything anymore. It used to be that she'd occasionally head out and do some digging on the weekends, but now she spends almost all of her free time out there. She still comes home, but she barely spends any time with me, and I know that she isn't doing anything but digging that damn hole in the ground. This can't be good for her mental health, but I don't know how to convince her to stop. She's always really happy when she comes back from digging, which is why I haven't seriously tried to stop her before, but I was talking to a friend about her, and he told me she might be going crazy. Obviously I don't think she's insane, but I hadn't considered the mental health aspect of this, and I just don't know what to do.
TLDR: Oshi spends all of her time digging a tunnel, and I'm worried for both her physical and mental health
