Sorry for timelooping but the way I see Totsugate is like this, multiple factors played into it. First and foremost, Vshojos talent freedom, now talent freedom itself is fine, it's basically letting the streamer decide what to do and whether or not she wants to put restrictions on themselves, as well as if they should give a damn about chat, the main problem was that Vshojos talent freedom has a different connotation, partially made by the Vshojo girls themselves but something almost entirely made by the fans and onlookers of Vshojo, that being "if you don't collab with males all the time and you actually give a fuck about your viewers then you're not free", it's not true for a lot of the girls and they care about their fans in varying amounts, but that's generally the stigma associated with Vshojos talent freedom, she might have felt pressured to push boundaries on certain things because she thought it was the norm or she didn't want to draw ire from people and thought her Gavhi wouldn't mind(more in my second point), couple that with being on a new platform she knows nothing about and her general lack of awareness and you can start to see the picture. The second factor is actually us, over the 6 months a lot of us have essentially become Yesmen to what she does, worst cases being people like Kitatsuki for context, and have essentially agreed to everything she'd want to do and the people who don't agree either didn't really speak, grinned and bore it or didn't really voice their opinions on anything besides a Mongolian Animation board, which she doesn't really see, thus giving her a false positive on what her Gachi where actually thinking. Really and truly the DM situation was needed and ended the best way possible for us desu, and imo was something needed sooner or later as I fear what would have happened had we didn't send them, there is genuinely an alt timeline where she didnt receive DMs and thinks we don't mind her doing this and that's scary to me.