If one of the Hololive girls do not want to collab with Tempus, but because of the idea that "We should be free to do these collaborations regardless what the fans think" that would result in them being forced to do them because they do not want to feel bad for rejecting it.

Gatekeepers be like: "Tempus and Hololive EN should collab. COLLAB PLZ. If not, you are not complying to the standard of the new Holo EN. They are free to do and collab with whoever they want!"

Unicorns be like: "Eww, why is my oshii collaborating with Tempus? She's not my oshii now, not supporting her."

Long story short, I guess there isn't a way to make both sides happy. I just want the girls to enjoy streaming and make their own decisions whether they are comfortable with collabs or not.