>>33273940It's because you don't understand the concept of the gentleman's game. When a woman decides to play the part of hostess and entertainer to an audience of men the men in that audience (to preserve peace) afford one another a certain amount of respect and deference. This is why a thousand unicorns can say they love their oshi and the streamer can say "I love you too" and none of the unicorns are jealous of one another. They are all on an equal playing field. They get to have their 15 seconds of recognition - they walk up to the belle of the ball, kiss her hand and a few of them get to have a round on the ballroom floor in a country waltz with her but at the end of the galla all the men who wanted some of her time got it and nobody has made real progress in courting her.
The male collab represents a fundamental break in the gentlemans game. The male collaborator is not on an even footing with the men in the audience. They are in a fundamentally unassailable more intimate position toward the belle as her co-worker. It's like trying to court the dame while her prize beaux is standing right next to her. Yeah, you can try but you aren't going to be in his place no matter what you do and that spoils the entire interaction.
That's why if the dame has a preferred suitor she needs to make her intentions and purposes very clear about it else wise she will embarrass and dishonor her other suitors by wasting their time and making them look like fools chasing a hopeless querry.
Unicorns have a fundamentally aristocratic mindset where as the anti-unicorns are fundamentally democratic. Neither is superior or inferior just contextual.
Chuuba's who don't want to engender that kind of dynamic in their audience need to be very clear about that from the very beginning or you will get the unicorns and they will raise a stink when the rules of the game they thought they were playing are broken. there cannot be mixed signals.
Unicorns need to stick to the GFE chuuba's because those girls are much more likely to honor the gentleman's game.
