I've had sex.
If I never had sex I'd still be pathetic.
Sex will not solve your life.
But having it will absolutely improve the quality of your life and opinion of yourself.
No, having it with a prostitute or AI isn't the same.
You are one insignificant physical act away from a complete re-invention of the way your perceive yourself. It's the barrier between a positive, healthy world view of yourself and the people around you.
Arguably, you can't develop that kind of actually healthy mindset without having sex. I know I can't, and nor could anybody from my rather extensive social circle. I've known people who were downright losers who, because of a pity relationship by complete luck and circumstance, drastically improved their lives and mental and physical health literally weeks after having sex.
And you'll never have it.
And the most common thing about the healthy minded people who have had sex and had it improve their lives drastically? The most common trait with regards to sex? It's that they will downplay its importance.
I want to, to. In actuality, I believe it entirely that it's unimportant. It wasn't that good. It was just physical. There's so much more important than it.
But I have what most other people don't have. A way to dial back the clock to my mindset I've processed before. A way to conceptualize my world view after cutting out or becoming properly aware of every facet of my life and experiences that shaped it and developed. Perfect clarity of my biases. Full knowledge of any lapses in judgement or memory that can get past the natural human response of ad-hoc rationalization that is done to maintain the illusion of a cohesive world view. It is the nature of man to become so empowered by having been chosen to have sex that he becomes an individual who can live normally, and to be 'normal' is to be an individual who, ironically, minimizes the influence of sex in getting him where he is.
The converse is the people who don't have sex but have "overcome" desire for it. Compare their behavior, mindset, and way of speaking to what a normal person sounds like. They don't sound normal. Their acceptance among people who are normal is contingent upon cleaving their expressed opinions to conventionally accepted normal opinions, but the mindset, logic, and emotions they have to those opinions is completely separate from the far more innate and instinctual adherence to those opinions by the normal population.
You will get both sex havers, and those broken by lack of sex into being irregular human beings who will never be normal deriding this post, if they respond at all.
But if you're reading this and troubled, know this truth and know it well. You will never have sex. And you will never be normal. And you will never be accepted. You are broken. You are a broken creature. You will find no place in this society that a normal person would occupy. It is beyond you.
You will always suffer. But the people who have had sex and used it propel themselves into a more normal life, as so many do? They do not. They live happily. They are 'vapid', and yet do so much more than you will ever do, and be acknowledged in a fundamentally human way that you never will be.
Their connection to the social aspect of humanity is deeper than yours will ever be.
And nothing you will ever do can change that until you can have sex.
But you can't have sex.
Isn't it funny? I adopt my old mannerisms of a few years ago, and I realize just how hopeless your situation is. Just how much you will be told, over and over again, that you're wrong and that we literally can't understand you.
And when I go back to my usual personality, after I end this meditative state where I deny myself the thoughts and feelings of who I am and become who I was, I will think you are weird too. I will tell you that the sex was unimportant. I will tell you that I've had successes in my life that have nothing to do with sex.
It is simply how successful men deal with their cognitive dissonance. I will genuinely believe I have the best in mind for you when I tell you to stop caring. I will genuinely believe you can. I will genuinely believe that your feelings are simply a construct of a mind that has its priorities and opinions mixed up to all hell.
But it will all be a lie, brought about by what I imagine is some aspect of our neurological programming, to make you go away. In truth, that me, without realizing it, wants one thing; for you to cease to exist. And this can only be done in two ways; to exacerbate your sense of social stigma until you stop expressing your socially disharmonious opinion of desiring sympathy for the dead-ends of our species, or to break you into, effectively, a eunuch who accepts his role as a slave to his superior mankind while staying as an outsider, and becoming so broken that his behavior becomes so alien and servile that any paint hat comes your way is mitigated enough to not affect the overall mood of mankind.