Therein lies the gender paradox.
Women, no matter their faults or the amount and severity of such faults, will always have inherent value; vtubers provide an example of this, giving an avenue for even "non-attractive" or "unskilled" women to make a comfortable living, and possibly a life of luxury.
Men, however, do not have such a lower limit in terms of value. Any value must be earned; those not up to the standard are regarded as truly worthless, and society benefits from these men being removed from society. We see this in weaker males of the lion pack being ousted from the group and wandering alone until they die from the elements, and so do we see this among the weaker males of human society.
You will never be a woman; you will always be a failed man, a disposable man, inherently providing zero value to the world aside from the labour you can provide to better the lives of the valuable, or the blood you can spill to protect the lives of the valuable.
You say unfortunate, but it is your obligation, nay, your destined role in society to provide the labour and money to the vtubers. That is the only way in which you can justify your existence in this society.
It is not your place to demand your self-preservation through saving money for yourself, or to demand respect and treated as a human from them or others, if you have not made any accomplishments to justify it. Nobody is obligated to give you such respect unless you can prove as such.
In any case, it's the time of the day to take my meds.
