>>45612820When I was a kid I bullied and fought with everyone, boys and girls alike. I did not understand why I was in more trouble hitting girls than when hitting boys, if they made me angry I should punch them all the same.
One day the dad of one of the girls I punched came to school to talk to me, I thought he was going to hit me because that's what my mom did to me when she was angry at me. He asked me if my dad never told me to not hit a girl and I just replied that he died before I was born in an accident.
He then took me to a bench, sat down with me and started explaining that hitting people is wrong and big boys like should defend smaller kids and girls. That only girls can hit girls and if a punch a girl then I was a girl, that logic worked for me and in one of my earliest self awareness moments I asked if punching boys was ok, and he told me "yeah, fuck them kids". From that day I stopped punching girls and just bullied boys until like middle school where I sorted my anger issues.
