>>45881226In my opinion, in life, under some circumtances, you have to choose your own priorities, putting one thing over the other, sacrificing something important to you otherwise you won't succeed. Of course there are exceptions but usually you are not able to exceed if you want everything at the same time, and in a lot of cases these two things are work and love, be it family's love or lover's love. In some countries like South Korea and Japan, the man who works for the family have to choose between a job that will pay a lot but drain all of his time and energy to take care of the family, resulting in possible childhood trauma for lack of affection, unhealthy relantionship that could escalate to betrayal of one side or the other due to stress or loneliness, and maybe even an addiction of some kind to ease the pain... but at least they will have money to take care of themselves, not suffer from poverty and less chance of heavy bullying to the family in general because the child would be on a top school and the husband would have some kind of status because of his work, of course that saying that no bullying at all would happen is just optimistic thinking. Now on the other hand if the person decides to choose family over work, and by that choosing a more easygoing job that also pays less so they can give more love and affection to the family, financial problems could arise down the road making the family unable to live a comfortable life, increasing the possibility that the child will have to go to a horrible school full of scum and that the family will have to live on a horrible, disgusting, and dangerous place. To be able to choose the two without problems the person would need to have one of the two secured beforehand or be a very lucky person, if you cannot choose one over the other or have any way to deal with it and you still want to try both you will have to deal with the consequences, just like her.
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Look what happened to her was just a slip of the tongue and I don't think her entire case is really that bad, but If the intention is getting big as a vtuber I think it is safer if you don't do it while being in a relantionship or join one in the middle of it... otherwise if all of that is casual for you be like Onigiri and be honest about it since you are not serious about it, since it will surely not affect your life.
