>>49249279>natural confidence not confidence you have to learnso bullshitting, any woman is going to hate a guy that constantly says he can accomplish something but fails every time. learned confidence from overcoming failures and obstacles is the only real confidence, because actually confidence is knowing when you can accomplish something and when you can't
>the ability to leadcommunication, social, debate, and negotiation skills, are things you can learn and practice to 90% of the way to natural charisma
>aggressive behavior towards other menmen who do nothing but try to one up or beat up every man they see as possibly insulting or slighting them, a woman that is attracted to someone like this is a red flag
the first and third traits you described are only attractive to women you should avoid
>The cycle feeds into itself. Bad luck with girls > you lose confidence > they can see you aren't actually confident in yourself > worse results.basing your confidence off of your attractiveness to women is automatically setting yourself up for failure, women have a sixth sense for desperation, you build confidence off of what you accomplish and overcome, and you do it for yourself
there's millions of women with completely different tastes in men, that's you find complete failure male vtubers who women fawn over because they want to be a sugar mommy. the one trait most women seem to hate is ineffectual men. women are disgusted by men who mope and declare the problems they run into to be unsolvable and who wallow in their failure. women, the ones actually getting in a relationship with, want dependability, a man who can solve most problems when faced with them
>general fitnessa sign of your self control and ability to take of yourself, you stay somewhat active and don't overeat/drink
>careeryou have the ability to provide for yourself and a family
>fiscal responsibilityyou have the ability to plan for the future and prepare for possible emergencies
