>>49319276Vivi’s the only one I’ve seen give pretty sound logic for it:
For women, it’s the fantasy of being so desirable that not only are two men fighting over you, but one is so attracted to you that he doesn’t care if you’re taken, he simply must have you
She thinks for men it’s the fantasy of taking another guy’s girl, though I kinda disagree with that because even you make an effort to insert as the stealer the majority of NTR is still written with the cucked as the protagonist and even if I insert as the stealer I’m not exactly aroused by making another guy cry a closet, I have too much sympathy for that
The good kind of NTR is when the cucked protag is genuinely a bad person, an abuser, or a creep, so there’s this aspect of giving him what he deserves and “saving” the girl from him, but most often he’s just a blank generic trying-his-best everyman
