>>59062510It really becomes a two-way street of incompatability when it comes to dating an idol. First of all, she's "elite" due to her status, and is well off enough to not need any support. Thus, she only wants someone even BETTER, which writes off most fans. Secondly, on the opposite side of the spectrum, most guys who have that kind of specs in terms of wealth/status probably wouldn't want to deal with an actual recluse of a vtuber when they can get someone more attractive/functional IRL.
This basically breaks down the relationship dynamic to the point where she holds all the cards, and only needs someone to support them, either as emotional support, psychological counseling, or assistant. Most guys with the wealth and status would be looking more for her to pamper them as their oshi, not be a clingy liability they need to work and care for. Basically the relationship dynamic flips to the point where both parties want to be pampered, and neither is willing to compromise since neither has to. It's similar to a realization where you understand "oh, I don't want a wife/gf, what I actually want is a maid", and for those who have the means, the latter is far easier and more convenient since cash can be cheaper and easier than putting in emotional/physical effort.
Even for superfans and gachikois (and yes, we all know about the random oil barons who drop akas every stream), any actual relationship would likely be ultra toxic and not worth the headache when they already have a good income. Think about it this way: if you are already a low tier millionaire, would you sell your soul to be the pet for an unattractive billionaire? At some point, that incremental money isn't worth it, and they can be perfectly happy with their upper middle class/lower upper class living, rather than being desperate living out in the slums.
If you want to "save" your oshi, start looking into grooming struggling 2-3 views, maybe maxing out at Bae's gf Miori. She's a fascinating thought experiment as an overall great GFE oshi, technically a small indie, failed out of school with questionable home life. Then again, as a successful and wealthy guy who her parents would love, would you really want a damaged menhera drunkard whose full time job is being a digital escort? As much as the saviorfag in me loves that idea, the reality is probably not nearly as rosy, especially if she's actually fat and nowhere near as cute as her model. In contrast, Bae is already too famous/successful as a Holo girl, and even then, you only like her as a 2D quirky zoomer anime girl, the reality of a normie dancer ABG girl is an instant turnoff for most weebs who instantly know her "type" as the kind of girl they despise (and despite weebs in turn).
