Vesper has given many solid stories/advice/words to live by. One of them was "who is a person you admire and what's a flaw of theirs? Because I believe it's a healthy mindset to have heroes but understand they aren't perfect."
As for female vtubers, one of them in an RP said "you don't have to think when you're with me." And that hit me right in the chest because most of my problems in life came from overthinking. So it was cool to hear that for the first time, even though it wasn't directed at me.
