>>72891695>the odds were stacked against himIt's not the whole story, but they're right.
>liberates me from leaving my comfort zoneRe: pretending to be someone you're not.
>the painful sting of failureDo you really think virgins don't feel that? Do you think I go to bed, breathing a sigh of relief that my shitty life isn't my fault? Not hugging a pillow and crying?
>It also fuels resentmentI only resent people who downplay the problem by spreading empty platitudes.
>Their view of women is a projection ofThe data.
>the game is not rigged against herWomen made the game. Women are more likely to reproduce and they're the ones who have to okay the relationship. Women basically get the pick of the litter, the problem is they love picking the worst pups and then acting confused when they get bit. How is this the game being rigged against them?
>all she needs to do is sit around and wait for ChadIt requires some effort, but women are extraverted, agreeable and sensation-seeking, so they are naturally drawn out into the open. Most men have no problem spending their entire lives in a cave.
>What would that person do if a Stacy came up and offered sex?This isn't an apt comparison because men have more diverse tastes than women. There is no such thing as a woman that no man would love, but there are some men who no women would love. I don't think Angelina Jolie or Jennifer Lawrence are hot, for example. Just look at the popular male and female vtubers. The girls are all over the place, while the men are either at the top or bottom, because women all love the same small handful of men. Men don't feel that way about women, though. I feel nothing for Lamy or Aki, but look how popular they are; look at how many guys say they can't sexualize Pekora or Korone.
>why would the not-slut woman not do it?I can't tell if you're being rhetorical or not, but she would probably not do it because of the risk of STDs, an unwanted pregnancy and losing self-esteem. Studies show men gain confidence and social status by sleeping around, while women lose it. For men, getting laid is like winning a game; for women, it's like candy or drinking. I'm a virgin (obviously), but I am pretty sure I could've fucked at least two girls when I was younger. I didn't because I didn't like them, but the sad thing is, due to how women are, my life would be better right now had I done it. Every woman in the world would find me more attractive for having pump and dumped them. Isn't that kinda' fucked up? That's the game women made. I spared them and now my life is worse off for it.
>If a woman is currently not a whore she will become a whoreWomen actually think this, too. The average millennial has slept with 8 men (gen x 10, boomers 12) and, when polled, women said the number of men needed to be considered promiscuous is...8.
>that narrative betrays a lack of empathyAnon, you're talking about men who were booted out of the gene pool. I should feel bad for the people who threw me over the palisades? Because the guy they sided with betrayed them? Not only that, but they have no intention of letting me back in. They'll laugh to themselves, "No, you're better than him, you're a good guy and he's a jerk," from the other side of the wall. Gee, thanks! While I'm dying in my pile of garbage, I'll take solace in the fact that there are men out there worst than me; they've fucked a lot of women and probably have kids and probably still get pelted with love letter, but at least I have...your pat on the back... That'll stay the noose.
>not-ugly people can struggle mentally, socially, romantically and yes, even sexuallyOf course they can. Life is full of misfortune. You ARE aware incels will die alone, without ever experiencing the widely agreed upon happiest activity in life or passing on their genes, right? You're aware incels also usually don't have friends and, yes, their family and pets still die, and they still do have to make a living and deal with health conditions and car problems and so on.
>these people are nowhere near ugly enough to actually be unfuckableWomen care about more than looks, but people often use "unattractive" to mean more than looks. Being poor or annoying is "unattractive."
>It's a social failureI think it's more complicated than that. Life is complicated. For me, my problem was that I wanted to just "be myself," but "myself" wasn't attracting the attention I wanted, so I left society and that was that. I know now that I fucked up, because I equated "being myself" with "doing nothing," and that's wrong, because the environment pushes and pulls you around and you have to take it upon yourself to stand up against the tide. I didn't.
>the most tragic part is that it's resolvableNot always. I'm too old, for example.
