>>73595706> Having an oshi doesn't mean she's a god that can do no wrong.> The same way you can criticize your oshi.I already mentioned that anon, with Kronii or Mori's members for example, who criticized them when they did dumb shit, but never really left.
And again, I'm not saying that "oshihen" should NEVER be something you should do (the word exists for a reason). But it usually happens when you're at the very end of the journey, of losing the very thing that connected both of you in the first place.
> a few things are just unforgivable to some> personally I would never accept something like offcollabs with other guys for exampleThat's the point of the whole spiel I was talking about anon.
If things are conditional, then it's simply a transactional relationship.
You like streamer doing x, y etc. you pay them because you want to succeed, you leave when they break rules you have one-sidedly set up.
It's only when your oshi themselves have set some things up and - if not directly stated, but at least hinted at - doing/never doing certain things (whether they be male collabs or anything else) then yeah, going back on such a thing is an extremely deep betrayal.
But the majority of the time, if you didn't "choose" your oshi, you will never get that feeling.
Connecting with someone on a deeper level only happens when both your worldviews and core ideals are at least somewhat compatible.