>>8915891I am happy to be able to help others.
It takes a great amount of suffering to be able to show real kindness and 4chan has collected a lot of people who went through bad times and want to share what they found with others.
>>8930274Yes, you can and it's a lot easier than you imagine.
Every human being possesses the power of a god to chose his own destiny and to rewrite his life and thoughts into what he desires.
You can chose to let the past decide what your life will be or take charge of your life and chose how you want to look at your past and change its meaning to you to change your life.
Past memories serve as a reference for your subconscious decisions and mindset, and bad memories can heavily impact your ability to lead a happy life by having a negative effect on your thoughts and beliefs.
However it is possible to change bad memories into positive memories in order to change your life.
By changing the way you react to your past memories and imagining it differently you can change how you act in the present and your general mindset.
The past doesn't exist anymore, only your memories of it exists in the current times.
Bad events leave a strong negative emotion, because they were associated with danger and our survival a long time ago.
That's why finding solutions to prevent these bad events from happening is so important and the only way to cure your past problems.
The way you imagine a different solution and outcome to a bad past event will change the way you think.
To change your bad memories into good ones, you need to imagine your negative emotional past again and feel the emotions associated with it, and then imagine a different outcome to this memory by changing the events or your actions in it into something positive that makes you happy and doesn't leave a negative emotion.
You are free to imagine this answer to your past memory as you wish as long as the message it gives you is a positive one that improves your life and makes you happier.
Do this with every bad memory you have and you will become a different person and closer to your best and happier self.
Our life is what our thoughts make it. - Marcus Aurelius
