>>9761029>Talking about her in present is only a disservice for her as KsonI completely understand why you feel that way. At the same time, for the remaining Holomem, it's not like they can refer to by saying "Kson", so when they say anything, they have to say "Coco".
Have you ever worked somewhere, and a coworker left on bad terms with management, but good terms with the team? Sure, maybe you don't talk about that person in front of management, but among friendly coworkers, if you want to talk about them, you just do it.
You don't say "I dinner with 'that guy' and his wife last night, he seems to be doing alright."
You don't treat them as he-who-shall-not-be-named, or some other bullshit.
You just say "I had dinner with Tray and his wife last night" and it's not like nuclear bomb goes off.
To hold back is to let management control you even more than they already do.
So in that sense, I am glad that Holomem aren't afraid to pretend like she no longer exists beyond the screen. Maybe that's breaking character? Sure? But vtubers will always have to walk that subtle line between being your anime waifu on the screen, and also a real person in a real place. In most cases, unless it's some disgraceful yab, the fans understand.
