>>7073058Somehow she always finds a way to twist things into her favour and make me seem like the bad guy. With all the clues, I believe she is BPD. While I did love her with all my heart, while I still may wish her only the best, I just can't continue to uphold her life by the sake of my own. If she told you her position, I believe you would think of me as the abuser, the bad guy. But I'm at the point where I think "every man for himself". Don't want to continue being sapped of my life-force.
It sounds gay, but if you haven't been through this (lucky you), you wouldn't understand.
Doesn't help that I suspect I'm a co-dependant. But, again, I'm at the point of not caring anymore.
We don't even share that much life values. I'm of a rather traditional world-view. She is not.
