>>7179368>I still live with them and they only help with material goods like food and a bed. Oh well Idc about that.You should care about that. It's your independence, it's your freedom they are taking from you. I'm going to guess your older than 18 by a bit, and not being able to take care of yourself is preventing you from moving forward. How can you leave the place, where you experienced so much pain, behind when you can't give your self food or a roof over your head? That is Dependence!
>I couldnt go outside. I tried to help my friend I wanted to punch the bastard in the face but i froze up like a fool, of course I stopped him, but fuck they deserve pain.That's because you were scared and it sounds like you over came the fear.
>My friends are mentall ill.. they cannot help me I cannot help them.>Everyone I knew was either hurting or getting hurt.Leave them behind. If they can't help themselves and you can't help yourself, You all need to stop being friends. That way you guys don't make a pity party of the helpless fools that prevent each other from getting help.
>I'm glad you could go outside and get a job by yourself, very good.NO! STOP right there! There is no good reason to praise me for being able to do what any normal person can do. However, there are plenty of bad reasons to praise some one for mediocrity; To falsely bolster their confidence and set them up for failure, To soften a hard blow, to deceive someone into thinking they are progressing in life. I hope you don't do this to your friends and family, and that they don't reciprocate. That kind of behavior fosters insecurity and dependence, that when a common fall, like getting fired, is seen as a huge blunder and your entire self image becomes shattered as a result.
I'll restate what I said before If your friends and family make you dependent, they are Bad for you. Fear failure and then face it, don't take a pill to make yourself feel better. You will never fix a problem you can't face.
