>>7160890last august my family ended up moving ~300 miles away,i had the option of either staying in my hometown & finding a place, or going with them.
didnt want to leave all of my friends & gf of 3 years. wed been through a rough patch earlier that year & were off & on for a few months, but had several long talks about our relationship and were on an upswing. we reached the conclusion that there were better opportunities where my family was moving and she agreed to move with me. the time came & my family moved so i moved with them & she was going to stay for a few weeks to give proper notice that she was quitting work to move. a month rolls by & she quit but still hadnt moved. late night calls stopped and something was up. eventually she broke it off with me over text. i was fucking ruined. in a new town with no job,not going to school, and have no friends. genuinely thought about really hurting myself for a while, but decided id rather swim than sink.
now 9 months later im finishing up my degree, have made some life long friends, and i go out and do shit instead of sitting inside everyday wishing life was better.
you dont miss them, you miss the times you had with them. and youre going to have the opportunity to create and experience times like the ones youre hung up on again with someone new i guaranfuckingtee it.
dont waste your time and energy on someone who wont waste their time and energy on you. you will find someone that will reciprocate. just dont make that your motive for everything. go out, live, work on yourself and just focus on having a good time. when youre your best self, people will pick up on it.
hope my story/advice help some, its a shitty situation to be in, but its certainly a temporary situation.
