>in military reserves doing training for a few months>Im an E5This fucking E4 is like the sloppiest grossest rudest underdeveloped male I've dealt with in a bit. Every time he puts dip in his mouth (I dont mind dip if youre not a slob) he puts close to 1/4 of the whole can in his mouth. Also spills fucking tobacco all over the floor. Also spits in Monster cans which have no lids so with the junior guys have to take out the trash they have to mop behind it too, because of the trail of dip spit drops that always leaks out the bag. I have to order him to clean up after himself regularly and have told him hes not even aloud near my rack any more. He bitches every time.
Also complains about money all the time. Says things like "must be nice" when I have extra cash on a weekend to go buy a fucking beer.
>Lives in trailer park with his wife and childNothing against trailer parks, living is living but his mortgage can't possibly be that much and he makes $500+ more a month than me due to having dependents and and getting "separation pay". Even though I've been in longer and outrank him.
I gently explain one day,
>"hey anon you get paid quite a bit more than me a month. I understand you have extra expenses but not very many jobs give you a pay raise for life expenses you take on so I don't really want you to come out with us and bitch about prices and stuff and tell us all we don't know what its like to raise a family. Thats just not what I came out to hear.">goes on about how I'm a dick>>7219583Life is short, carefully make romantic advances or move on if not interested in friendship. Also don't let sexual attraction be your only basis for friendship.
>>7219607It'll be ok anon. Moving on is better than ruining your life with someone you don't like.
>>7219743Yeah don't give up, I know lots of college grads who got good jobs up to a year after graduating.
