>>7406428(2/2) jesus I'm sorry this is becoming such a long post
when I came home two days later, my mom told me that my dad had explained to her that memories of his childhood always come back to him around his birthday.
what I don't understand it that my mom never understood his trauma, even though this was not the first, and probably not the last time he's been so pissed.
I don't really know how to summarize it. I think the core problem is that my mom can't empathize with my dad's trauma, and that it often causes problems, and that my dad hates her for it. and I'm kind of stuck in between. I still think it's better for them to go separate ways.