>>6772013Yeah man, it's always nice to help a fellow brother out with shit like this! Long story short you just need to not worry about her and what she's doing right now. You need to focus on yourself and you especially need to focus on living in the present, don't dwell in the past, or speculate the future because that'll cause pain.
The fact that she's still open to the idea of being with you is a good thing anon, I don't know how old you two are, what your scenario with this girl is, how long you two have been dating, what's she's like, ECT. I'm not going to pretend that I know, so I'm going to kinda base it off my ex (my ex was a super sweet girl and we still talk so don't worry). But if you really love this girl and I mean like "put a ring on her finger" kind of love, not lustful "fuck n' dump". Then keep her in mind... My ex said the same thing about being friends and "we'll try again after university" so I keep in slight touch with her, not enough for a friendship, bit enough for her to know I'm still there she is still into me, but the distance between us is just too great to hold a relationship right now, so we're just living our own lives, I'm not on her list of priorities, and she's not in mine. She can go party and do whatever she wants, and so can I. There's nothing really stopping us from just moving on from each other, but I think id like to see where my relationship with this girl can go, I'd like to think that I'd love to spend the rest of my life with this girl right now, but maybe that won't be the case, who knows, and from the sounds of things the same scenario might be happening with you two.
But always remember that she's not the only girl on the planet, others may be better, more funny, more attractive, and more real, those women are out there, so don't shut out your options, you and your ex may have gotten along like bread and butter, but whose to say that you and the next girl won't get along like fries and gravy?... Just remember that
