>>7566472I know how you feel. I can count on my fingers how many people there are that i truly feel comfortable to be myself around. Just know that you cannot control them, that they have to do what they must. if you have any videogames or social hobbies, maybe try to find some friends on there. its pretty remarkable how easy it is to find people to talk to when you try. found a girlfriend through overwatch lol.
>>7566967been there. it is unbelievably easy to succumb to the temptations of no commitments. do you want to be someone who does things because theyre easy? who avoids the necessary because its hard? is that who you want to be? dont even think about getting a girlfriend before you work your own problems out though, a girl wont fix your problems. be someone worth dating. the girls worth dating deserve someone good. are you deserving of a desirable? be someone desirable. it starts today.
>>7567124good on you spending this time well. enjoy it while it lasts friend.
>>7567135challenge yourself. go somewhere. be someone. porn, vidya, its addictive. its a drug. treat it like one before you fall somewhere you cant climb out of. the idle hand is the devils plaything.
>>7568238hang in there for me man. it took me 4 whole years to get my best friend out of that debilitating cycle of apathy, he's 120lbs lighter now and now owns a car, has a job, is going to college, and has aspirations. when i met him he had none of those things and was addicted to food. if he could do it, so can you. please hang in there. for me. apathy will destroy all that makes you human. it is the enemy of the soul.
>>7568249like the other anon said, she doesnt know what she wants. girls can be extremely weak, and lots of modern girls like to project their insecurities through their interactions with others. find one who treats you like a person, not a light switch to be turned on when desired and off when not.
>>7568370trust me. go get one. got a job at 17 and it changed me. forever.
