>>6982730Hey OP, listen we all have girl problems and there always that one girl that gets to us. i wouldn't say i'm an alpha but im pretty confident guy and i consistently get compliments on my look but there's one girl at my job that for 3 months i literally couldn't even talk to her. Beautiful dark chocolate flavor girl that has for the longest time driven me literally crazy. she knows i like her and she explained that it's the same feeling the other way around but this whole i've been trying to take her out she ALWAYS flakes on me; it's been the most disappointed i've been in years but one thing you learn is that consistency is key and that you have to talk to her; before you talk to her plan out what you're going to initially say to her and just go with the flow. i promise you OP you wont regret it. one thing also the too issues you have such as OCD And your grade all you can do is take them one step at a time. i live on my own and i use to worry about bills and work and i realized that it's not worth worrying just go with the flow