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Some time ago my best friend stopped talking to me.
Next time we talked they told me they no longer wanted to be my friend and alluded that the only reason they were even telling me that was because they were worried/felt guilty, because I started reclusing from social interaction about the time they stopped talking to me. They told me the reason they didn't want to be friends with me is because of some issues we had about 3 months prior. But as far as I can tell we solved those issues. They still called me their best friend for me for the months afterwards.
I took it all pretty badly, I had a nervous breakdown because of it.
But then they also told me they still would have wanted to be friends but talk less, but it was too late now. Despite them making it fairly clear the first time they wanted to stop being friends all together.
They then blocked me as a result of my nervous breakdown and refuse to speak to me now. About 2 months after I tried to contact them to apologize and just talk, but they refused and dismissed everything I said.
All of this has left me very confused. This person was a very close friend of mine, and I was likewise to them. And then it was all ruined at the drop of a dime. I don't know what happened, I don't know why they would just stop, they bring up these old issues that stopped being a problem months prior. Maybe I'm in the one in the wrong but I just can't see it? All of this feels like we're yelling past each other and it could be fixed if we just had a civil talk. But I don't know how to get them to talk with me.
All of this has also made me very afraid of having any friends. If my best and closest friend can turn me so quickly and with such little explanation then why should I expect anyone lesser not to do the same?
