>>7893832I know that feel anon. I almost died at the end of 2020 due a serious and unexpected health condition. I was on medical leave for 7 months and an additional 6 with work from home (fortunately a lot of my job could be done remotely). Total medical bills were close to 150K, but fortunately my job had good health benefits which covered most of it save for about $7500 in copay and deductibles. I was married at the time to a woman who had severe mental health issues (bipolar/early stages of schizophrenia) that she had refused to treat during her 20s. When I got sick, my parents had to take care of me because she couldn't take care of a pet rock if her life depended on it. While I was recovering at their house she had a complete mental break down, disappeared for a while, most likely had an affair based on several accounts, reappeared and then threatened to kill herself. Then she left me without a word, demanded a divorce, and stole nearly everything out of the apartment that I had paid for. We had been together 7 years.