>>7205746success is working towards a meaningful life. happiness comes from meaning, don't let the hedonists fool you into believing it's the little things in life that matters; those few drinks when you get home, a blunt before bed, a night on the town, a shopping spree or any instant or easily attainable pleasure. They all end up at the end of their lives full of regrets and unfulfilled dreams. a hollow shell of the lost potential wasting away in the elderly years. My family has a lot of these and is still breading more sad tragedies full of nothing.
Find something that give your life meaning and pursue it to your fullest, DO NOT HOLD BACK! Suffering for your purpose is success. That's why it's money for some, fame for others, and a simple happy family.