>>6773978>being good doesnt get u anywhere people keep expecing you to do everything for them and your needs ar put aside.there's a big difference in being a kind person, and being a lapdog. I've been used more than a cheap prostitute my whole life by "friends"; but that doesn't mean I should start being an ass to everyone. The key is learning to tell the difference between ASKING and DEMANDING.
>Asking: "Hey anon, can you come with me to my rehab meeting?">Demanding: "Hey anon, let's get some breakfast! I don't have a car though, so you have to pick me up, and then if you can drop me off at my friend's house 20miles away afterwards? Thanks!"Don't let yourself be a doormat to everyone; but, at the same time, be there if they ask.
