>>7933375I am in a very similar situation to you
I have finished university, I've got a job, but isn't the job I want
I have a good group of mates but lack any form of relationship currently
I beat myself up sometimes because I'm feeling stagnant and unsatisfied
Recently I've been making an effort to sort out things that need doing, housework, applications etc and it's slowly bringing me into a new part of my life
I think once I get myself out of this rut and rediscover some of my passion, it will make it a lot easier to find a partner that I want to build a family with