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When I was in grade 12, I had the biggest crush on this girl. She was quiet, she was extremely shy, but a beautiful blonde but short girl. I could never gather the strength to talk to her, I could never do anything, so I turned to my best mate for help, since he already knew her. He started talking to her about me, started helping me out... Found out that she actually had a big crush on me as well, so then me and my mate decided to make plans for me to ask her to my formal. We planned everything, flowers in hand, fuck I even bought a teddy bear for her. My friends were off in the distance, and her's was around somewhere as well... as soon as she saw me with the flowers... she looked at me and said "no" and walked off, before i even had a chance to speak. I was left there, holding all this shit, by myself with this girl just walking off... Never felt so embarrassed in all my life. My friends really helped me out a lot of though, they came sprinting over to me grabbed the flowers and started proposing to each other, and a mate gave me $20 and said "A woman can leave him heartless, but I wont leave him without a bit of money in his wallet" .
Time went over and we still had feelings for each other, we eventually started talking, as if nothing happened. We actually ended up sitting next to each other at the formal, and we talked and etc... just never worked out i suppose.
I'm extremely happy that it didn't, otherwise I wouldn't be with the woman who helped me go through all of it now.
I guess what you can take from my small and pathetic story is there is always another chapter, don't focus too hard on what has happened, learn to move on and find comfort in the future.
It's funny because when this all happened I started a thread, just like this, here at /wg. It seems so bizarre because I remember someone sharing their experience, and telling em the exact same advice.
funny, isn't it.
