>>7396974jus b yourself bro
Honestly though, confidence plays a huge role. My first relationship kind of fell into my lap. She wasn't great for me, but she really cared. She convinced me that I can be attractive and loveable. After we broke up I was fucked up for a while, but overall it was good experience - a starter gf, if you will.
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>>7397038 says, self-image goes a long way. Believe it or not, you have something to offer the world, and if you really get to know people their lives will be better for it.