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I've been following some of this thread, and people are debating how you should move forward, the morality of cheating and being cheated on.
Ignore the arguments and ask yourself only 3 questions.
1. Golden Rule.
Reverse the situations, if you cheated on her, would she take you back? Has she made comments in the past (If you cheat on me, i'll cut your dick off, etc...)
2. Trust
Can you ever trust her again? If she ever wants to go out with the girls or to a concert, works late, etc... are you going to not be paranoid? Are you going to start going through her phone?
What if she restricts herself from enjoying life, so those thoughts wont cross your mind? She'll have a diminished quality of life, and she might begin to resent you for it, even though she was the one who cheated.
3. Acceptance
Can you accept that she cheated on you? Can you never bring it up in an argument? Can you accept that she enjoyed another cock while she told you that she loved you?
Only you are the harbinger of your own fate. Only you can answer these questions and make the best choice for yourself.
And don't make the mistake that a choice cannot be undone. If you try to make things work, but are unable too, there's no shame in ending it. Vice Versa, if you don't want to give her a chance, there's no shame in trying to start anew after time has passed.
Nobody can give you an easy answer, but a path that you can walk to find the answer.
